|
Entry Title
|
Note
|
Posted
|
|
SORRY IT'S BEEN SOOOO LONG!!!
|
i have a few questions all about my b-f hes a little older than me keep this in mind we have ok ?#1 recently started having sexand now hes acting kinda funny was it sumthing i did or wat?if so wat can i do to fix it ?#2 how can i tell if hes lying to me cuz i think he is about his drug usage and about his friend and sum other stuff ?#3 when a guy says he needs alone time and he never did before (been dating for a year the only difference is that now we are having sex)does it mean there is sumthing up or it just guys being guys? thanx for the help looking forward to reading your response [the teen years suck]
|
2004-10-13 00:41:44 |
|
|
SORRY IT'S BEEN SOOOO LONG!!!
|
I see that you have escaped the "If you delete, I will repeat" message that all of us advise-giver's are recieving. Lucky you. [Sarah_53]
|
2004-06-14 11:06:54 |
|
|
SORRY IT'S BEEN SOOOO LONG!!!
|
Last night for the first time my boyfriend fingered me. We took it very serious and made sure everything was right between us first before we took it to the next level. However, when he did, it really didnt feel good at all and acually i was kinda sore afterwards. It kinda makes me feel bad because he felt bad. Is there anyway we can get it to feel better??? [Abigal]
|
2004-02-03 12:30:27 |
|
|
SORRY IT'S BEEN SOOOO LONG!!!
|
hello. i've read through the past few entries and i would like some advice if you have the time. my problems aren't very big, but advice could help. i'm a very busy person with lots on my plate, i dance and sing competitively, take french immersion, ukrainian classes as well as many other sports, etc. i was wondering, how does a person improve themself at things that they can do reasonably well....i mean, how can i get myself to practice to improve to become really good. how can i motivate myself? any advice... [a girl]
|
2004-01-24 21:15:41 |
|
|
SORRY IT'S BEEN SOOOO LONG!!!
|
How do I let a guy that I'm about to have sex with know that I'm a virgin without him being turned off by the fact or anything. I never told him that I wasn't, but I'm not sure if he just assumes that I'm not a virgin or what. Please help! Thanx:)! [Corteney]
|
2003-07-13 09:10:38 |
|
|
SORRY IT'S BEEN SOOOO LONG!!!
|
Hi, I'm about to have sex for the very first time with my boyfriend (I'm 18). Can you please give me advice and tips on what to do? I want to look like I at least know what I'm doing somewhat! Thanx!!! [Krissy]
|
2003-06-16 09:13:08 |
|
|
SORRY IT'S BEEN SOOOO LONG!!!
|
Hey, ok, well my ex and I broke up 7 months ago, but I am STILL not over him. I have tried being with many different guys, but that just makes me miss him even more than ever. Can you please tell me some methods to get over a guy that don't involve another guy? Thanx for any help you can give:)! [Ky]
|
2003-06-13 11:03:55 |
|
|
SORRY IT'S BEEN SOOOO LONG!!!
|
hiya. I am so fake. I'm a person too fake for words. I hate everything. And I just CAN'T look on the bright side. What should I do?! [diaryland23]
|
2003-06-12 03:45:14 |
|
|
SORRY IT'S BEEN SOOOO LONG!!!
|
Thanks. :) [Eleventh Ocean]
|
2003-06-05 16:11:39 |
|
|
SORRY IT'S BEEN SOOOO LONG!!!
|
It's not really something I can sum up, but if you wanted to check out my diary and comment there, that'd be great. (It's only 3 pages, so it's not a lot of reading.) [Eleventh Ocean]
|
2003-06-05 12:09:41 |
|
|
Reply to EmotionalReck
|
My father spanked me on my face yesterday when he knew that I had a cyber relationship (by means of cellphone) with this guy for about 4 months. I'm totally clueless about him (my father) being so rude and harsh to me. Since my mother is not alive, I have no one to talk to. Now, I'm thinking whether to walk away from home since our summer vacation is near. But I'm afraid to face the consequences... What do you think? PLS HELP ME. [Cyrene Ann]
|
2003-03-24 07:37:20 |
|
|
Reply to EmotionalReck
|
ok..well im 15 and i need help, im kinda shy but this year i started coming out of my shell more. I hang out with guys more now & there starting to become interested with me. i wanna go out with this guy and i know what that entailes. I need your advice on kissing. ive never kissed a guy before simply because ive either been to shy or i avoid it. Details could really help, thanks alot. [~Sarah]
|
2003-03-01 13:15:23 |
|
|
Reply to EmotionalReck
|
Hey! I need help.. Lately I've just felt really secluded from my friends kinda.. like they don't really talk to me that much anymore or invite me places... it's not like they're flat out mean to me, i talk to some of them but it just seems as if they think i'm not important and i'm really confused.. i think im doing something wrong. please help!! thanks! -Friendless [Anonymous]
|
2003-02-27 21:56:11 |
|
|
Reply to EmotionalReck
|
can you read my last entry and tell me what ya think please? thanks [Miss Day]
|
2003-02-24 13:43:18 |
|
|
Reply To All Comments!
|
Hi! Its me again. I've been talking to him alot and hanging out after school. So I'm kinda afraid to say anything. I was thinking I could just like say real quick "I like you..alot" but I fiqured out that thats pretty korny. SO what do you think I should say to him?! [EmotionalReck]
|
2003-02-19 00:08:58 |
|
|
Reply To All Comments!
|
Reply to myconfusedlife... Um, honestly, I think you're over reacting. I know I would have been the same way, but you're seriously over reacting. There are plenty of guys that you could go up to and find, believe me. I don't think you should shut this guy who danced with ur best friend out of ur life though, just talk to him and tell him that you were hurt becuz he said he would save you a dance, and you really looked forward to it, and just let him know that you don't appreciate being lied to. And then see how things go from there. But try to be civilized and calm. *Hugs* [AdviceGiver]
|
2003-02-18 09:43:35 |
|
|
Reply To All Comments!
|
Reply to JKUK_KORN... Okay, well, I'm assuming that ur problem is with this girl Sarah.. I think what you should do is sit down with her and talk to her about how ur feeling and ask her if she is interested or not. And if she is, then ask her to go out sometime so you can get to know each other better. But if she isn't, then I think you need to back off and find someone else. That's really all there is to it. Goodluck! [AdviceGiver]
|
2003-02-18 09:38:46 |
|
|
Reply to Miss Day
|
I have this friend named Faith, and I've known her since the fourth grade. I've never really wanted to even be accuantences with Faith, but once I talked to her, she clung to me. She took anger managment courses back then, and seemed to keep her cool with no one except me. She would make fights with anyone who insulted her or tried to be my friend. I tried to tell her I didn't really like her, but she would get emotional and dramatic saying things like, "Okay, I'll only cry for 5 days." Afraid of embarassment and fear for her emotions, I quickly took it back. Now that I'm in 7th grade, she has finally come to middle school. She has to be in the Special Ed class becouse of her anger and even had to be hospitalized over the summer. She has my lunch period and bothers me and my friends constantly, never seeming to get the hint that we don't want her with us. What do I do? I don't want to be her friend anymore, and neither do my other friends. She has crushes on all of OUR guy friends and annoys everyone. I'm afraid to be harsh in case she starts rumors and get all dramatic, and I'm afraid to be soft becuase she might not get the point. I don't want to walk away from this either, so what can I do to get her away? [Android VSD02C]
|
2003-02-17 20:21:42 |
|
|
Reply to Miss Day
|
hey could you read my entry number 51 and tell me what you think i should do. thanks! [myconfusedlife]
|
2003-02-16 18:05:20 |
|
|
Reply to Miss Day
|
Check out my diary, u'll see the problem [JKUK_KORN]
|
2003-02-14 06:42:38 |
|
|
Reply to Miss Day
|
Ok heres the deal. I've liked this guy for a year! And in the begining of the year his best friend told me that he like me alot..I'm not sure if its true. Should I tell him how much I like him or just wait to see if he makes the first move?! PLEASE HELP!! After a year I still cant fiqure out what to do. *very sad* ME [EmotionalReck]
|
2003-02-12 23:26:54 |
|
|
Reply to Miss Day
|
hey, i need some advice, my sis iz 16, and shes pregnant(she just turned 16) and she hasnt told no1 but me, and sum of her friends, and she dont know how she iz going 2 tell our parentz, can u help me give advice 2 her???? pleez thnx [I_Luv_2_Flirt04]
|
2003-02-09 21:02:21 |
|
|
Reply to loving_life_sumtimes
|
HELP! I am dating this guy use to treat me really well. We started dating back in November, and OMG, everything was perfect. He wrote me a letter waiting for my reply. In my reply, I told him that i didnt want anything serious, and wanted to take things day by day. That didnt stop us from continuing what we had-I was fine with that. For the past 2 weeks, it seems like he has just dropped me! No calls, hasnt come over or anything. So after a couple of games of phone tag, i finally tell him how i feel about it. his response "you just want to take it day by day so why are you getting so upset?" which is true, but when you go from talking to eachother practically everyday to nothing, it kinda bothers me. especially since he brought this up a month and a half after the fact ya know? well, after the talk, i felt like an ass because he has had a lot on his shoulders-whichi wish i would have known about it first. Anyway, i might be leaving this summer, and that is basically why i dont want anything serious. I dont know if i should try and stay just dating him, and keep things the way they are, or should i stop the confusion and get serious with him and decide what to do this summer? just to add a twist to it, i have unfinished business with an X of mine, who knows this situation with Matt and I. He told me that if things dont work out between Matt and me, that he would like to get back with me. Which means a lot to me, and would def. mean a lot to his family! but now i feel like i should get over matt just to get with Drew because i led him on by talking to him about it.....AAARRRGRGRGGRG!!! please help! my fav. saying is to take things day by day, but that is what got me into this mess! [Miss Day]
|
2003-01-24 01:49:27 |
|
|
Reply to loving_life_sumtimes
|
Thank-you [Android VSD02C]
|
2003-01-10 20:43:29 |
|
|
Reply to Waiting 4 an angel 2
|
okies i need sum more advice how do u tell sum1 tht u love them or how do u show it? and how do u tell sum1 tht u have a b/f n tht u cant go out with them? [loving_life_sumtimes]
|
2003-01-09 21:08:15 |
|
|
Reply to Girlof14
|
Hello, I've been reading through your entries and you sound like give good advice, so here goes... Me and my mother have been drifting apart lately. I've known for a great amount of time that she's afraid to be happy(and therefore screws up every fun thing we do) and she's been getting very stressed and hostile in the mornings. I feel that we grow greater apart every second. She doesn't seem to care(or even notice) my feelings, opinions, achievments, injuries, loves, or concerns. She complains to my father she feels suicidal and depressive(he doesn't do much either). I also, recently, have begun to feel alone and have to resort to huddling in my bedroom corner, clutching a pillow, and crying. I have begun to hate myself and do bad in school. All I want is to be close to my mommy again and for her to always be happy, but how can make a person who's never happy happy? I need help, I just want to hear my mom say she loves me again. [Android VSD02C]
|
2003-01-09 20:15:34 |
|
|
Reply to Girlof14
|
Hey there, I need some help with this guy. He thinks of me only as a friend, not a girlfriend. I really like him, I've liked him for about a year. He likes my best friend, but she hates him. I don't know what to do. My best friend asked him out for me but he said no. I REALLY like him, what should I do? [Summer]
|
2003-01-09 20:11:00 |
|
|
Reply to 0 Aboutface
|
Okay I really need advice! All my friends are mad at me. My friend octavia because I was really pissed at her over a ski trip and I also felt like crap but she can't find it in her heart to forgive me. My friend Angela because I couldn't get a hold of her for the ski trip and my mom had talked to her mom and her mom said she was working so it wouldn't work out. My mom must have misunderstood but now angela is mad at me because she thinks she wasn't invited because Octavia told her shit. My other friend lindsey is really mad at me over me calling her a bitch because she was calling me names. And other people are mad at me because they are. So what can I do?? I have apoligized and explained over and over and nothing works! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!! luv [Waiting 4 an angel 2]
|
2003-01-08 19:01:53 |
|
|
Reply to 0 Aboutface
|
Both me and my boyfriend are 14 and in love. I know I am too young to have sex and I don't want oral sex either. We talked about the idea of taking off our clothes and masturbating each other until we both cum. It sounds like it would be exciting and I don't think you can get a disease doing this. Do you think it is wrong to do this? Thanks for the help [Girlof14]
|
2003-01-08 16:30:16 |
|
|
Reply to Anonymous
|
thank you so much, hopefully i can get the courage to tell him or something [Anonymous]
|
2003-01-07 15:34:39 |
|
|
Reply to Anonymous
|
Hope you read my comment in your last entry, thanks :) [0 Aboutface]
|
2003-01-07 11:22:44 |
|
|
Reply to Trouble_Maker
|
Hi, I just wrote an entry and notice your diary, it was posted right under mine. Well I have this thing about being from a small mid-west town, and a freshman in a large college in the east. The boy who I was dating was an African-American and things didn't work out. All he wanted was sex from me, and when I refused it he dumped me. He tried to make me feel bad, saying that my parents were once slave owners, and things like that. Would it be to my best interest to avoid dating all black males? [0 Aboutface]
|
2003-01-07 11:19:51 |
|
|
Reply to loving_life_sumtimes
|
Dear Advicegiver, I really want to know what you do when you are trult in love with someone, but dont know how to tell them. [Anonymous]
|
2003-01-06 16:46:27 |
|
|
Reply to loving_life_sumtimes
|
HE LOVES ME again lol thanks a bunch [loving_life_sumtimes]
|
2003-01-04 21:01:46 |
|
|
Reply to loving_life_sumtimes
|
Hey i dont know what to do. My father abuses me and i want to tell someone but im scared they wont believe me and then my father will hurt me worse after he finds out i told someone. Wat should i do!? love always Kelly [Trouble_Maker]
|
2003-01-04 16:09:22 |
|
|
Reply to nsuever
|
i need more help! ok alex ma b/f he doesnt no when to draw the line! his best friend called me a bitch hore stubboran demanding slut n alex didnt say nothing and well i dont kno wht 2 do cuz he says he loves me and well i dont no if i love him? and if i dont does tht mean i should dump him? [loving_life_sumtimes]
|
2003-01-04 13:46:11 |
|
|
Reply to nsuever
|
thank you so much for helpin :-) i'm going to try that. -kitten [psycho_kittie_kat]
|
2003-01-02 15:29:25 |
|
|
Reply to nsuever
|
Thank you so much for your help. I am going to try to get him to do something with me sometime. Hopefully his girlfriend will let him. Haha. Thanks again! [nsuever]
|
2003-01-02 10:48:50 |
|
|
Reply to ooKristioo
|
Hi, I would just like to know what you think about something. Do you believe that a person can know if he/she is "the one" when they meet? Or do you feel that this isn't possible? The reason I ask, is because I think I met "the one". Here's my story briefly. I moved to PA six months ago to attend college. I met this guy on the bus that I take to school everyday. As it turns out, we started school at the same time, get on at the same bus stop (10 miles from school), he works at the grocery store I go to, I see him most of the places I go, and I had a dream about him before I even met him. I can sense where he is most of the time. Does this make any sense to you? I don't know too much about him, but I feel something between us. The only thing is that he has a girlfriend. I don't know what to think about this whole situation, or what to do about it. I would like to know what your take is on it if you could help :). I would really appreciate it!! [nsuever]
|
2003-01-02 00:21:38 |
|
|
Reply to ooKristioo
|
hello, im 16 and i need advice on wether or not i should leave my x blocked,i blocked him in the first place b/c i still love him and b/c he calls me names which makes me sad. but recently i've told him that he hurts me like that and he said that he'd stop. and he has... but i still love him so much and i dont know how to get over him and wether i should just unblock him and tolerate him liking other girls and wanting to be with them. or should i just get it over with and stop having any type of relationship at all. that would be really hard cause i've known him for 2 yrs and i've been best friends with him most of that time... PLEASE HELP!! -kitten [psycho_kittie_kat]
|
2003-01-01 15:58:15 |
|
|
Reply to ooKristioo
|
WORSHIP ME, YOUR ETERNAL DOG LORD!! [GOD THE SATANIST]
|
2003-01-01 01:53:37 |
|
|
Reply to ooKristioo
|
hmmm...well I suppose the sarcasm in that statement was a little subtle. Here let me make it very apparent. I think your super, and I think your advice is super duper super. Even the way you discriminate on your super duper advice giving is super duper. Have a super duper day you super duper advice giver. *Note that i never once called you a name, you however chose to refer to me in a negative and profane way.* Here let me give you some advice, a little humor in you life never hurt. and with that I end this flame war. [AngryMary]
|
2002-12-31 16:53:07 |
|
|
Reply to ooKristioo
|
I'm going to have to say that was a very terrible answer to my problem. Thanx to your ridicule to my problem I am now going to committ suicide. and by the way, i dont think i am better than you I already know I am. [AngryMary]
|
2002-12-31 16:30:32 |
|
|
Reply to ooKristioo
|
Well, like I said, just sit down and talk with her. Let her know that ur 17 years old, and ur not a little kid anymore. Tell her you're gonna be out of high school soon and you want to be in this relationship more then anything. Maybe she'll change her mind or give you some slack atleast? [AdviceGiver]
|
2002-12-31 07:43:07 |
|
|
Reply to ooKristioo
|
I'm 17...I just turned 17 in nov. she hates him...for me givin up lots of time for him..he smokes and drinks and I told her that just so she knew.....she has a "feeling" about him....blah blah she dumb! [ooKristioo]
|
2002-12-31 00:26:47 |
|
|
Reply to loving_life_sumtimes
|
hey...well I have quite a problem and if u have good advice for this I will be amazed! ok I try to make it brief..... I'm in love....still falling in love. and I have been for awhile now w/my b/f. we have been goin out for alomost a total of a year. and I know he loves me just as much. well my mom hates him, a lot. and decide a few weeks ago that I couldn't c him nemore. so I haven't, cuz my mom is physco! she will find out, u may not understand but she will. she hates everything about him. I really don't know what to do! I love him so much and not seeing him I just get depressed! we had decided that we would stay together until my mom changes her mind or until I turn 18 and we both have stayed faithful...its been about a month now. and hes not aloud to call the house, I can call him sumtimes, and thats when I don't have work soccer or h/w! help! what the hell am I going to do?! [ooKristioo]
|
2002-12-30 16:26:13 |
|
|
Reply to loving_life_sumtimes
|
thnx tht helped a lil! [loving_life_sumtimes]
|
2002-12-30 16:15:36 |
|
|
Reply to loving_life_sumtimes
|
ok ill explain just a bit better ok? i love him (not in a b/f g/f way)i love him like i love my best friend lik i love my brother i dont love him in that way! but he loves me in that way i care about him and every time we break up my heart breaks a little bit more! n we alwayz get back 2gether bcuz i think its gonna b different and its alwayz the same boring realtionship we alwayz had! i cant find the right words to tell him (ive decided i am gonna dump him) so plz help me choose these words tht will end our so called "love" 4ever! [loving_life_sumtimes]
|
2002-12-30 15:35:27 |
|
|
Reply to loving_life_sumtimes
|
Help. There's this guy, a really close mate of mine. Lately we slept together a few times. i think I've fallen for him, but he has just started seeing someone else. this arouses some concrens. 1)I think he may have been seeing her when we slept together. 2)It's broken my heart 3)when we were together he insisted he never wanted to commit to n e 1, at least for the forseeable future and 4)Though he's my best mate, I had 2 find out he wasn't single from a mutural friend, giving more rise to the idea that he has been going behind my/her back. also, one of my best mates is in love with him, and has been for months, if she had n e idea what went on between me and the guy, she'd go ape. Also, I'm only 13, I shouldn't be going through this kind of shit, but he and all my friends are older than me. Help me. PLEASE! [Graceless_angel_666]
|
2002-12-30 15:24:07 |
|
|
Reply to AngryMary
|
i am the one everyone depends on the ones everyone goes 2 4 a smile! i just got a call from a girl in ma class who is pregnat and she needed to talk 2 me about her b/f ya i dunt even no her she just got ma number n called but ya newayz back 2 my problems so as u can c i cant absoultly cant go 2 anyone 4 advice! ok me and my b/f have been on and off for about a year were on 3rd base n he wants me 2 go all the way with him! i trust him and everyhting i want to ! but we are alwayz breaking up and this is the last time that i want to b going out with him! i CANT absoulty cant break up with him bcuz i KNOW he loves me way to much (tht y he wants me 2 b his first and him mine) but yes newayz i want him to break up with me so i dont hurt his feeling how can i get him to break up with me with out him getting hurt in any way! bcuz i do love him with all my heart im just tired of playing games plz help! [loving_life_sumtimes]
|
2002-12-30 14:25:29 |
|
|
Reply to AngryMary
|
Hi..I'm not seeking advice but I would like to give some. It only takes two more keystrokes to type your instead of "ur" and it makes things look alot more professional :). That's got to be one of my greatest online pet peeves. Thanks for making this vent possible...Gift [Gift]
|
2002-12-30 14:25:27 |
|
|
Reply to I swallow
|
Okay Almighty Advice Giver...let me slide this one across your plate...When i was five I was abducted by aliens only they turned out to be rather friendly. Not only were they friendly but they were far cuter than any human I had ever had the pleasure of coming in contact with. Anyways I lived very happily on their planet until I was around 10, then they sent me home for being a bed wetter. When I returned to my human family they thought I was insane and sent me to a mental institution. Upon arriving at the institution I met a security gaurd who was beyond hot! For the next 5 years in the institution we had a torrid affair usually after hours but we would sneak in a couple quickies around lunch time and shock therapy sessions. After my release back into society at the age of 16 my family decided to take me back thinking i was finally cured. and for the next 5 years after that I lived peacefully in middle america in a nice quiet suburban town. Until one day in the middle of the night I heard a noise at my window. It was the security guard from the institution...I rose up and out of bed and made my way towards the window, he was begging me to come with him, but i didnt want him anymore...stupid asshole. He got angry and violent and began to strike at me with his mammoth hands...i screamed and screamed for help but everyone in my neighborhood was deaf to my cries. When all of a sudden there was a flash of light...and there standing before me was my alien family from so long ago. They shot the security guard with an alien ray thingy and he fell to his death. They held out their hands for me to come with them, I turned and looked towards my house where my human family stood at the window in astonishment. NO!!! My human family cried..."Stay with Us!" So here is my problem, I have aliens outside my window who kidnapped me long ago and then when they were sick of me dumped me off...and then I have my human family who thought i was a crazy bad seed and committed me to an institution...What would you do you super advice giver you? What would you do... Choose your words wisely because they could be your last. [AngryMary]
|
2002-12-30 10:29:41 |
|
|
Reply to Gurlof13
|
I would like to be like you and advice people as well but I know that I know shit about things. I am afraid that I could write something wrong and hurt someone. In fact I have already done this in my other diary, I still can't forget about that gal's suicide. So what do I do? [I swallow]
|
2002-12-30 09:13:21 |
|
|
Poor Me
|
Hey I love your diary and I hope you can help me with a problem. I'm 13 and I have a boyfriend that's 16. I already told him I don't want to have sex yet but he wants me to give him a "handjob". I told him I would like to do it but I'm not sure its a good idea and I don't really know how to give one. Is this okay to do and how do you give a "handjob" to a boy?? Thanks !!! - Gurlof13 [Gurlof13]
|
2002-12-29 15:31:11 |
|
|
Reply to marinegirl
|
war is over (if you want it) happy christmas! xxoo [jonmatters]
|
2002-12-23 21:59:56 |
|
|
Reply to marinegirl
|
he's almost 15 and i'm 14.. it seems like the ages should be switched because im more mature then he is, but boys mature slow anyhow. he'll come around. tomorrow is our "walk in the park date" yay I'm so excited... but if he tries something (other then kissing) then i'm gonna be mad because i don't want to have sex yet :-) [marinegirl]
|
2002-12-18 20:00:29 |
|
|
Reply to Hells_enchantress
|
i need some more advice! about a week ago, my best friend overheard aaron (my bf) asking his friend for a CONDOM. so my friend told me this, and yesterday I went up to aaron's friend and asked him what he was going to do with that condom. he told me that aaron was just playing around. so now I think his friend told him that I asked about it, and now I think that's the reason that aaron's mad at me. I'm not fully sure that he's mad at me, but he hasn't been talking to me, and kindof avoiding me. should I have "interfered" with these two guys' discussions? hmm i hope you didn't get confused by all of this... [marinegirl]
|
2002-12-17 21:41:44 |
|
|
Reply to marinegirl
|
Hey i think what you are doing is really cool. I have this situation where me and one of my old friends met up again and fooled around( not too much but just a little) but now i sorta like him. Everytime i talk to him, however, i get a friend vibe from him but he said he would still do stuff with me. How do i know if he is just looking for a booty call or if he interessted in me but still shy to say anything? hopefully this makes sense [Hells_enchantress]
|
2002-12-15 22:40:28 |
|
|
Let me know
|
hey thankyou so much for your advice... me and aaron have plans to go walk in the park :-) we don't like eachother's friends... hehe I think your advice really helped me tho! *hUgZ* [marinegirl]
|
2002-12-15 13:23:15 |
|
|
Reply to marinegirl
|
Okay, this is my situation. I was dating this boy, and met one of his friends through him. I liked hi immediately, but was in a relationship, so over two months I got ot know him, as I tried to set him and another girl up. Thinking, if I did this, at least the four of us would always be together, and I'd get to be around him. Over those two months I found out that this guy was amazing, and shared so much with me, but right as I realized this, he and the girl I'd been setting up finally got their acts together and started dating. I was still oaky with it, cause we all kinda double dated, then they started spending less time with us, her MOTHER, suddenly kept ruining plans, and my family is convinced its cause me and him were getting so buddy buddy. I broke up with my boyfriend, and hardly get to see this boy anymore, but everytime I do run into him, he still looks at me the same way, that has had me trapped and dazed for months. On top of that, she seems horrible for him, instead of loving his individuality, she's embarrassed by it, when I think he's the most adoreable thing ever. What can I do? Anything? Help me out... please. Counting On You [CountingOnYou]
|
2002-12-14 21:32:03 |
|
|
reply 2 twiztid mind
|
hey there I think I need advice... well aaron is my boyfriend and we've been "going out" for 5 months, and he HAS NOT kissed me. he told me online that he really wanted to and I told him that I did too... and he said he wanted me to make the first move. I waited for a long time, then he told my best friend that he would kiss me at the dance. this is impossible because there are always teachers around... and my mom won't let guys come to my house (even if I tell her they're just my friends) and his parents won't let me come over to his house. so we have no time together without teachers around. after school, he rides the bus home, or else we would hang out after school. but i really want to kiss him, i just have know clue how we could... or even how to start the kiss :-) thanks [marinegirl]
|
2002-12-14 21:02:06 |
|
|
reply 2 twiztid mind
|
Hello dearie...
Normally, around friends, I'm the priceless shrink, but I think I need your help now. I am ill. Not physically, but mental. Only, how do I convince the people who want to help me I am? They have felt the point of the knife, but haven't felt the blade, yet. Hmm...I don't know if you'll be able to help, but I'd love to hear your opinion. [Junon]
|
2002-12-14 20:57:56 |
|
|
reply 2 twiztid mind
|
hey there how do I ask for advice? [marinegirl]
|
2002-12-14 20:44:51 |
|
|
Need Advice?
|
Hey. Well I could use some advice. Its about this guy, I cant talk to my friends about it cuz they all hate this guy. Anyway he is like my best friend in the world, and he wants me to have sex with him. Cuz he knows Im a virgin, and he wants to be first. I want to do it, but I dont know if it would make things between us weird or anything like that. Like my friends all really hate him, but I love him. So I guess I just dont know what to do. I tried talking to my friends, but all they say is we dont really love each other and it would be stupid. But we do love each other. The only bad thing is we are best friends. So what do you think I should do? [Twiztid Mind]
|
2002-12-14 19:49:17 |
|
